My husband Robert always reminds me "It's all about choices". I truly did not believe how difficult I made my life. I held on for decades by my finger tips to keep the old me in the prison of my own mind. I was not ready to let go of old beliefs of who I thought I was.
Finally there is some recognition that until I can have a full, open and honest relationship with myself I cannot have a full and healthy relationship with another. Whether it is with my husband, my children, step daughter, family or friends; until I stop long enough to be quiet and am open to knowing myself, I will taint all my relationships because they will reflect back how I feel about myself.
Every choice you make establishes your own identity as you will see it and believe it is - http://www.weboflove.org/courseinmiracles#sthash.h2xDdqAX.dpuf
People who come in to my life are reflections of me. When they act out parts of my unfinished self I respond, I react, I am 'hurt'. "How could they?"— when I am such a loving good person. That is obvious not what I I am projecting at that time. The deep hidden agendas will come back and smack you square in the heart.
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